Wednesday, February 17, 2010

A loving intervention

Harper, my dear, sweet, beloved 9 year old son, has decided to rescue me from myself. It seems, according to him, I can be a bit grouchy at times. :) He has been counseling me on ways I can improve my standing as a father and be less grouchy and "not talk in that mean voice." He has lovingly devised a merit system for me where I lose points for bad behaviors. Apparently though, I don't get extra points for being nice because, well, I guess I should always be nice. I guess some people would be upset with this little intervention but I am trying to take it to heart. There was a sweetness and gentleness to the way he talked to me about it that one couldn't help but be proud of him. It would also be ridiculous to deny that I might have my share of grouchy moments. So, I am trying to be a better Dad. I'm trying to watch the tone in my voice and avoiding making that little exasperated sigh that I apparently make much more than Harper would like. :) It's not easy but I am trying and I hope it shows. Don't give up on me Harper! I can do this! I know I can.

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