A father of six shares his sometimes random, occasionally rambling, and sporadically humorous collection of thoughts about life, family, children, and whatever else happens to cross his mind.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
A loving intervention
Harper, my dear, sweet, beloved 9 year old son, has decided to rescue me from myself. It seems, according to him, I can be a bit grouchy at times. :) He has been counseling me on ways I can improve my standing as a father and be less grouchy and "not talk in that mean voice." He has lovingly devised a merit system for me where I lose points for bad behaviors. Apparently though, I don't get extra points for being nice because, well, I guess I should always be nice. I guess some people would be upset with this little intervention but I am trying to take it to heart. There was a sweetness and gentleness to the way he talked to me about it that one couldn't help but be proud of him. It would also be ridiculous to deny that I might have my share of grouchy moments. So, I am trying to be a better Dad. I'm trying to watch the tone in my voice and avoiding making that little exasperated sigh that I apparently make much more than Harper would like. :) It's not easy but I am trying and I hope it shows. Don't give up on me Harper! I can do this! I know I can.
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